1. I believe that love at first sight is possible (R)
    2. I did not realize that I was in love until I actually had been for some time (B)
    3. When things aren't going right for us, my stomach gets upset (P)
    4. From a practical point of view, I must consider what a person is going to become in life before I commit myself to loving him/her (L)
    5. You cannot have love unless you first had caring for a while (B)
    6. It is always a good idea to keep your lover a little uncertain about how committed you are to him/her (G)
    7. The first time we kissed or rubbed cheeks, I felt a definite genital response (i.e., lubrication, erection) (R)
    8. I still have good friendships with almost everyone with whom I have ever been involved in a loving relationship. (B)
    9. It makes good sense to plan your life carefully before you choose a lover (L)
    10. When my love affairs break up, I get so depressed that I have thought of suicide (P)
    11. Sometimes I get so excited about being in love that I can't sleep (P)
    12. I try to use my own strength to help my lover through difficult times, even though he/she is behaving foolishly (U)
    13. I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer (U)
    14. Part of the fun of being in love is testing one's skill at keeping it going and getting what one wants from it at the same time (G)
    15. As far as my lover is concerned, what he/she doesn't know about me won't hurt him/her (G)
    16. It is best to love someone with a similar background (L)
    17. We kissed each other soon after we met because we both wanted to (R)
    18. When my lover doesn't pay enough attention to me I feel sick all over (P)
    19. I cannot be happy unless I place my lover's happiness before my own (U)
    20. Usually the first thing that attracts my attention to a person is his/her pleasing physical appearance (R)
    21. The best kind of love grows out of a long friendship (B)
    22. When I am in love I have trouble concentrating on anything else (P)
    23. At the first touch of his/her hand I knew that love was a real possibility (R)
    24. When I break up with someone I go out with, I go out of my way to see that he/she is okay (U)
    25. I cannot relax if I suspect that he/she is with someone else (P)
    26. I have at least once had to plan carefully to keep two of my lovers from finding out about each other (G)
    27. I can get over love affairs pretty easily and quickly (G)
    28. A main consideration in choosing a lover is how he/she reflects on my family (L)
    29. I am usually willing to sacrifice my own wishes to let my lover achieve his/hers (U)
    30. The best part of love is living together, building a home together and rearing children together (B)
    31. A main consideration in choosing a partner is whether or not he/she will be a good parent (L)
    32. Kissing, cuddling and sex should not be rushed. They will happen naturally when one's intimacy has grown (B)
    33. I enjoy flirting with attractive people (G)
    34. My lover would get upset if he/she knew some of the things I've some with other people (G)
    35. Before I ever fell in love I had a pretty clear picture of what my true love would be like (R)
    36. If my lover had a baby by someone else I would want to raise it, love it and care for it as if it were my own (U)
    37. It is hard to say exactly when we fell in love (B)
    38. I couldn't truly love anyone I would not be willing to marry (L)
    39. Even though I don't want to be jealous, I can't help it when my lover pays attention to someone else (P)
    40. I would rather break up with my lover than stand in his/her way (U)
    41. I like the idea of having the same kinds of clothes, hats, plants, cars, etc., as my lover does (R)
    42. I wouldn't date someone that I wouldn't fall in love with (L)
    43. At least once when I thought a love affair was over, I saw him/her again and the old feelings came surging back (P)
    44. Whatever I own is my lover's to use as he/she chooses (U)
    45. If my lover ignores me for a while, I sometimes do really stupid things to try to get his/her attention back (P)
    46. It would be fun to see whether I can get someone to go out with me even if I didn't want to get involved with that person (G)
    47. A main consideration in choosing a partner is how she/he will reflect on my career (L)
    48. When my lover doesn't see me for a while I assume he/she has a good reason (U)
    49. Before getting involved with anyone I try to figure out how compatible his/her hereditary background is with mine in case we ever have children (L)
    50. The best love relationships are the ones that last the longest (B)
 
 

Count the number of time you agreed with the statements marked:

B=__________ U=__________
L=__________ P=__________
R=__________ G=__________